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 Posted By: scubalaydee 
Jun 30  # 16 of 23
thanks much Mama I needed those kind words a little down these days,it just hurts a little bitty too much for now
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 Posted By: Mama Mangia 
Jun 30  # 17 of 23
You're very welcomed - and it is not going to be easy - and it is not going to get better like everyone says - we need to learn to deal with such things - and there are so many questions and so many thoughts as well as all the memories and the "what ifs"....
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 Posted By: scubalaydee 
Jul 4  # 18 of 23
Why is it so hard, I keep telling myself I should be prepared for this, I just wish he could have lived forever, we were so compatible, it gets worse for me especially when my hubby and I have a disagreement, and I am unable to do a quick call to my daddy who was a great listener, and a logical thinker, he made me feel good every time. The ifs is what is killing me mainly because I am in the USA and he was so far away, therefore by the time I arrived he was gone to a better place. What is keeping me afloat is the wonderful times we had together. Thanks so much for understanding and being patient with my rambling.
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 Posted By: Mama Mangia 
Jul 4  # 19 of 23
Lord do I know what you are going through!
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 Posted By: scubalaydee 
Jul 5  # 20 of 23
Mama Mangia you have helped me enormously, because I know you understand!