lol Nan.
I miss Cathy. She is visiting family for a few days. She told me she was going to be gone for 4 days.

I lived in an apt house with 10 apts. The house was about 200 years old and a virtual tinder box. Almost everyone smoked, and the wiring looked like it was from the 1780's.

Yes, that kept me up at night.

What can you do? Other than poke fun at them in a light hearted way so maybe to perhaps keep it in the back of their mind the next time they light a candle?

Candles always make me nervous.

Personal perception is sometimes quite odd.

It's really strange... I find a careless candle-burner far more dangerous in a neighborhood/apartment-complex setting than a responsible gun-owner!

I agree Kev...I'm paranoid with candles...lol..I make sure they are out if I burn one.Also electrical appliances such as Iron ,curling iron...etc

When we lived in apartments parking was mostly the issue. The people on either side of us were living 6 adults to an apartment and each one of them had a car. The apartment complex said that they would not allow that many people to live in one apartment but they didn't enforce it. So they would park in our marked parking spaces. It was even worse when they had all their friends over. They would be blaring mariachi music and every parking lot in the complex would be taken. I did a lot of towing.