Wow, I can;t believe you are being blamed for yours husbands build. i have never heard of such a thing. Well, I have heard that people blame fast food places for their problems.
I hope you aren't force feeding Jon, Janie. I have only been here on SP for a short time but seeing your postings I don't see you as the type to be standing over someone demanding that they eat and eat and eat, or demand that they get no exercise, lol. That is funny. I don't understand the blame game. It seems that there always has to be someone to blame for every problem.
I'm going to be 48 in a few days. I work construction. I am not the kid I once was and My build has changed through the years. I have a bit of a gut and it doesn't matter how much work I do or how little I eat I can't lose it. I chalk it up to age. I surely am not blaming my wife and would definitely not allow my family to blame my wife. There would be no tolerance for that.

I get the opposite. My Dad always says that my husband is too skinny and it's all my fault because I don't feed him enough bacon grease and cookies. That he's starving to death. I know he says it just to tick me off but it works. It does tick me off. My husband is 6 ft and 172 lbs. not fat but hardly coming from the concentration camp skinny.

Yeah I sat on him and pinched his nose together til he opened his mouth lol. I keep telling him he is easier to get along with when his mouth is full.

I checked out the Mexican store next to Jons physical therapy place. They had tons of dried peppers and mexican herbs and spices I had no clue about. Its funny they have changed the labels on everything we buy to include Mexican and English but everything in their store was Mexican. What a rip off lol.
I did find some dried Mexican Oregano which I bought.

F.Y.I. I find the Mexican Oregano to be stronger than other types so you may want to adjust your recipe when you use it Janie.