To Kevin - she had all those wonderful years with him - and it had to hurt her much more than 5 times that of losing a 20 year old. You cannot put a "bite" on the love someone has for another and the amount of grief they go through when they lose them. Shame on the "bite" person.

To Janie - thank you dear - very much - I needed it so bad. Hugs back to you - OOOOO

Mama, I have no words of comfort. Because I don't know what to say. But know that I care and am sending big hugs and lots of prayers for you and the family. Bill

CF - you know what? there are really no words of comfort - we try to say what we can to make the situation better and it is so hard - we all get stuck with what to say - I know it all too well - and thank you so much - I understand.