Posted By: chubbyalaskagriz
Dec 11 # 20 of 32
Well, janie... Mom has had another senior apartment that offers some assisted living aspects, about an hour from us in Peoria. But a few months back she went to stay at my sister's for 2 weeks and on the morning we were due to drive her back to her place she broke-down and confided in us that she didn't want to go back there and felt she could no longer take care of herself.
We understood- she's had obvious issues w/ personal hygiene the last year or so- and she's lost so much weight and has literally withered and become dangerously frail right before our eyes.
Oddly- all this decline has happened as her mental health has improved w/ meds and 'upstairs' she's now healthier than she has been in 30 years! So to see the physical down-fall occurring at the same time has been- well- strange.
Anyway, Karla and I have been trying to evenly divide the time we keep Mom- usually a week at a time... until the senior apartment facility near me can get her in- they say March...
...so until then we try to do our best, keep a sunny face on, and try to keep Mom's needs in mind before all others...
Thanks, janie dear!
