Yeah that whole "You Owe Me" mentality is goofy. I'm all for working hard and earning. I'm just all for people behaving and respecting. One of my pet peeves is poorly-behaved people.

Yeah! But, fortunately, we left them behind at the other site.

Of course, if you'd like a little excitment, I could invite D. and G. to come on over.....:rolleyes:

My youngest memories in the kitchen were of my Mom and her sisters at their Mom's making big family dinners. All of the men sat at the table and ate first then the women and kids ate second. I still catch myself jumping up at family dinners getting people drinks and anything they need. Jon talks about how old fashioned I am.

Oh Jeez, KYH! Let's don't- and say we did! I finally just stopped having bad dreams about D. & G.! Ha!

I kinda do the same thing, janie... I don't know if it's because I "serve" for a living and am used to it, so I just do it- or if it's my "inner-Virgo", or what. But I don't dole out attentions and favors in the kitchen/dining-room in response to people's genders- I pretty much spread the love equally.At least I think (hope) I do.