material but, dang, we look better than the people that make her feel like crap. It really doesn't bother me alot when people comment on my gaining weight, but she is young and it ruins her day. She is only 5' tall and cannot carry the weight well.
I quit smoking also when I had heart surgery, 2.5 packs a day, and my new addiction has become food and I admit it. I am addicted to it but I try real hard. I have just lost some weight (yeah, again) but I am geared to losing it because of my health, not what folks say or think.
We can all work together for our health purposes! Right now I am doing 75% South Beach (unable to stick to it otherwise) but have to alter it to low-fat ingredients to suit my need

A least, my NY resolution is to try harder.