in losing a few pounds, and sort of check in with each other. No bad mouthing when we slip and fall, 'cause I know I am going to, but pick each other up during those times an just be good support for each other. What ya' say, folks?

P.S. When it comes to carbs, Chubbs, I could drink a cup of gravy.

If that cup of gravy is not slurped up directly, it definitely is soaked up with some good freshly made bread. Carbs are good for us, right??!!

Jon's buddy who is always telling his girlfriend's young daughter she is fat came by last night. He is always scowling at his girlfriend if she takes anything I give her to eat sooo last night I gave her a bowl of ice cream and offered him a bowl of wood chips that I use in my smoker. Everyone else thought it was funny except him. I told him they would not be without flavor..they were hickory.

He made the dumbest comment. Said it was my fault Jon has a belly and that I should stock the cabinets with only healthy food and Jon would have to eat it or starve. I said you dont know Jon as well as you think then. He wouldnt eat it he would just have someone else take him to the store. Then I asked him what would he do if his girlfriend only stocked his fridge with junkfood. He got this look on his face like he was bewildered I had even had the thought. His girlfriend was raised in a very religious family and she was taught to believe you do as the man says without question. WELL I let and like for Jon to take the lead in almost everything but nothing like those two are. You can see his girlfriend has a great sense of humor and I think with some tutoring I can make her as evil as me. When I would get a good one off of him she would laugh and if he heard her he would turn and give her this disapproving scowl til she quit. All that did was fuel the fire and I let him have it even more.

He said he didnt want me to spend time with her :rolleyes: This is his second relationship. He and his first wife are divorced. His first wife was a real witch and she took advantage of him. He is over compensating for that with the woman he is with now and it is so not fair to make her pay for the first wife's behavior. They have been together a couple of years and Im hoping he will relize what he is doing and knock it off. I could see last night that she was biting her tongue alot about what he said. When she has had her fill and the lid blows its gonna be ugly. I would hate to see him blow such a good thing.